About Us

The Cheeky Butlers is the classy, cheeky alternative to a stripper — charming, professional male hosts who run your whole night instead of just performing for it. We started with one simple idea: women planning a bachelorette or birthday deserved more than a guy who shows up, dances two songs, and leaves. So we built something better — interactive, customizable, and genuinely fun. Started by the original Cheeky Butler himself, we're now a family-run team in 30+ cities, in the business of turning your night into a core memory for the bride or birthday girl.

★ 5.0 · 500+ parties · 30+ cities · vetted & discreet

Why We Love It For Your Party

We come to you — all over San Francisco. From a Union Square hotel or a SoMa loft to a Marina rental or a bay cruise, we bring the action straight to you.

Your butler hosts the whole thing — pours the cocktails, runs the games, snaps the photos, even fires up the grill. You relax and actually enjoy your own party.

A surprise entrance, planned with you. Tell us how big you want the reveal, and your butler maps out the perfect introduction with you beforehand.

Hilarious games at your spice level — from PG-13 fun to all-out cheeky, your call, always within your group's comfort.

Why Clients Love Us

You set the spice. Mild and playful for a mixed crowd, wild for the back row — same booking, you choose, he matches it exactly.

You pick the look. Signature pinstripe apron (the famous funny-buns look), cabana-boy board shorts, or smart slacks to keep it classy. Your party, your call.

Real parties, real proof. Every photo here is from an actual booking — real brides, real groups, real nights. Not staged photo shoots with models like our competitors run. The guy in the photos is the guy at your door.

Hand-picked pros. Vetted for the three things that matter: personality, charm, and looks — as fun to talk to as he is to look at.

Respect, always. Cheeky never means crossing your boundaries. Your butler reads the room and keeps it fun for everyone.

What to Expect + Good to Know

Expect the highlight of the whole trip. The bride's nervous for about ninety seconds, then forgets she ever was — by then he's pulling the whole group into a game. Once you book, you'll get your butler's contact a few days before so you can plan the surprise together.

A few notes: adults only (21+). Your butler arrives 15 minutes early to change and plan — just have a private room, drinks, ice, and cups ready. A deposit secures your date; the balance is paid directly to your butler on the day, and if you're more than an hour out, a small travel fee is included in that day-of payment to cover the drive.

San Francisco weekends book out fast — tap the heart to save this, then lock your date. Be cheeky. Book a butler.

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