About this Experience
It starts with a knock at the door.
She has no idea. Maybe it’s her bachelorette, maybe it’s her 30th, maybe it’s her divorce party and the girls decided this new chapter deserved a proper entrance. There’s a knock on the door and in walks a charming, handsome man with a cheeky grin, abs for days, and not a whole lot else. Just a little pinstripe apron, a bow tie, and that man right there will be your party guest for the next several hours of your choosing! Watch the guest of honor go bright red. Somebody already has their phone out. And just like that, it’s the night nobody’s going to shut up about. That’s a Cheeky Butler. And he’s only getting started — he’s got lots of fun games planned, and some naughty ideas too.
About Us
The Cheeky Butlers is the classy, cheeky alternative to a stripper — charming, ridiculously good-looking male hosts who run your whole night instead of just performing for it. The idea was simple: women planning a bachelorette, a birthday, a divorce party, or just a girls’ night deserved something better than a boring stripper. So that’s what we built — interactive, customizable, and genuinely, cry-laughing fun. That’s where our butlers come in. We’re the perfect addition to any occasion, and we can keep it completely classy or as naughty as you’d like.
Why We Love It For Your Party
We come to you — anywhere in The Hamptons. From a pool house or a downtown hotel to a private villa or a poolside cabana, we bring the whole thing straight to your door.
Your butler hosts all of it — pours the cocktails, runs the games, snaps the photos, even fires up the grill. You actually get to relax and enjoy your own party for once. You can talk to your butler beforehand to plan a surprise entrance, pick the games, and sort out any other bespoke requests — tell us how big you want the reveal and he’ll map out the perfect introduction. Oh, and don’t worry about drinks — he’s got you on those too.
The games are where it really takes off. You can request some fun games to play… some sweet, some seriously naughty ones. He’ll have some prepared too. Brainstorm fun ideas leading up to the party or on that day. He runs them, judges them, hands out the dares, and keeps it moving so there’s never a dull moment.
Why Clients Love Us
You set the spice. Mild and playful for a mixed crowd, wild for the back row — same booking, you choose, he matches it exactly. You also pick the look: if you’ve got a mixed crowd and want to keep it tame, ask him to come as a cabana boy or in underwear. The signature pinstripe apron with the buns out is a popular option — but it’s not for everyone, so it’s your call, ladies. Your butler always chats through the group’s comfort level and boundaries before the party. Let’s keep things respectful and fun — cheeky never means crossing your boundaries. He reads the room and keeps it fun for everyone.
And the proof? All real parties. Every photo here is from an actual booking — not one staged photoshoot. With our guys, we look for the three things that matter: personality, charm, and looks — every bit as fun to talk to as he is to stare at. We get them handsome and ready to elevate your party.
What to Expect + Good to Know
Expect the highlight of the whole trip. The guest of honor’s nervous for about ninety seconds, then completely forgets she ever was — by then he’s already pulled the whole group into a game. Once you book, you’ll get your butler’s contact a few days before so you can plan the surprise together.
A few notes: adults only (18+). Your butler arrives before the party to change and get set — just have a private room, drinks, ice, and cups ready. A deposit secures your date; the balance is paid directly to your butler on the day, and if you’re more than an hour out, a small travel fee is included in that day-of payment to cover the drive.
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Be cheeky. Book a butler. Book right here, or text us anytime at (561) 690-7591 — talk directly to one of our cheeky butlers. We respond really fast!
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LocationHamptons, NY
Hamptons, NY

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Full refund on cancellations with 7+ days notice. No refund within 7 day window.
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Frequently Asked Questions
What does a Cheeky Butler do?
A Cheeky Butler is a handsome, charming, and talented entertainer who will serve as your party's mischievous server and mysterious guest. They typically play games with the group, mix dtinks, serve shots...etc etc. They are there for a fun time and are open to following guidance and taking requests.
Can we customize our Cheeky Butler experience?
You have full control over the level of spice your Cheeky Butler brings to your party. You can decide how they dress, from modest to very exposed, and they will contact you a few days before the party to plan accordingly. Remember, every group has different levels of comfortability, and our butlers understand that. Go wild!
Are Cheeky Butlers suitable for all types of parties?
Absolutely! Cheeky Butlers are a popular choice for a wide range of parties, including bachelorette parties, birthday surprises, but only 18+.
Can we ask our Cheeky Butler to striptease?
While our butlers can do some dirty dances, they should not be booked as strippers. Dancing is not the objective, although that is something you can request.
What should we prepare for our Cheeky Butler party?
Our Cheeky Butlers do not come with party supplies, so please make sure you have enough ice, liquor, mixers, food etc etc. Upon arrival, tell your Butler what you would like or ask for some tips as they are experts. Make sure they have a place to change, and be ready for their surprise entry. Have drinks ready for him to start mixing, take some shots and make introductions, and have some games ready to start playing with the group.
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Can we push the limits with our Cheeky Butlers?
Feel free to push his limits, but remember, he might push yours back. The Cheeky Butlers are there to ensure you have the time of your life, so get ready to get cheeky!
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