About this Experience
What you'll do:
A Hot Take party is a fun, interactive event designed to explore intimacy, communication, and connection in a safe and engaging environment. We get the party started with some icebreakers, games, guided discussions, and hands-on activities tailored to your group’s needs and interests. Each party is facilitated by a professional 'Sexpert' who ensures that everyone feels comfortable and included.
Each party includes a mix of educational content, playful activities, and open discussions around the theme (Tasting) of your choice, whether it's dirty talk, flirting, reigniting the spark, or another topic. You can also expect hands-on explanations of various toys and tools. Our aim is to create an experience that’s both informative and fun!
We don’t just drop off products. We create an experience that helps you feel more confident, connected, and curious long after the party ends.
Why we love it for your party:
Because nothing bonds a group like laughing, learning, and talking about the stuff everyone secretly wants to know
Hot Take turns your gathering into something unforgettable; part party, part sex ed (but way more fun)
It’s the kind of experience people keep talking about long after the last glass of wine is poured
It’s perfect for: Bachelorettes & birthdays, Girls’ nights & queer hangs, milestone moments, anyone who wants a deeper connection and better sex
You’ll leave with: Inside jokes, new confidence, practical tools for better intimacy (and maybe a new toy), and memories that bring you closer to your people
Basically… it’s not just a party. It’s a Hot Take
About this experience partner:
Hot Take is a Certified Sex Therapist-led intimacy & pleasure education brand founded by licensed sex therapists who believe that pleasure, connection, and curiosity should be celebrated, not shamed. With backgrounds in clinical sex therapy and relationship counseling, the Hot Take team brings both expertise and playfulness into every experience they host.
They’re known for creating spaces that feel safe, inclusive, and fun, where guests can explore desire, communication, and intimacy without awkwardness or judgment. Whether they’re hosting a bachelorette, a dinner party, book club, or even a relaxing night, Hot Take’s Sexperts meet people exactly where they are with warmth, humor, and evidence-based guidance.
Their goal is simple: help people feel more confident in their bodies, their wants, and their relationships… while having a really good time doing it.
Additional information:
Where it happens:
We come to your home, Airbnb, or private venue
Must have a private, comfortable space for your group; if not, your Hot Take Team can help find a space for you!
Group size:
Best for groups of 6–20 people
Smaller and larger groups can be accommodated with advance notice
Length of experience:
Most experiences last 2-3 hours, depending on group size
Custom timing available
What’s included:
A curated party focusing on your intimacy topic aka tasting
Toy and lube demos
Games, icebreakers, and conversation prompts
Bottle of wine for the Host
Optional shopping for toys
Experience level:
No prior sex-ed or toy knowledge needed
Designed to be welcoming for beginners and fun for more experienced guests
Inclusivity:
All genders, bodies, orientations, and relationship styles are welcome
We are LGBTQIA+ affirming and trauma-informed
Boundaries & consent:
No one is ever pressured to participate
You can observe, laugh, or pass at any time
This is about comfort, curiosity, and consent
Purchasing:
Toys and products are available to shop during the event
No obligation to buy — just explore
Booking:
We recommend booking at least 2–3 weeks in advance
Weekend slots fill quickly
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Visit the experience booking site to check availability and book your experience.
LocationSeattle, WA
Seattle, WA
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Frequently Asked Questions
What does a Hot Take Party involve?
Each party includes a mix of educational content, playful activities, and open discussions around the theme (Tasting) of your choice, whether it's dirty talk, flirting, reigniting the spark, or another topic. You can also expect hands-on explanations of various toys and tools. Our aim is to create an experience that’s both informative and fun!
What is a Tasting?
In the context of Hot Take* a tasting is an immersive and playful theme/topic of the party. A Tasting is designed to give participants a small, sample-sized experience of various topics related to intimacy, pleasure, and relationships. Much like a wine or food tasting, participants get to explore a variety of ideas and practices, but in a low-pressure, interactive setting. Each tasting is focused on a specific theme—whether it's dirty talk, solo pleasure, or reigniting the spark—and involves guided activities, discussions, and hands-on exploration. We introduce concepts, offer tools, and create opportunities for participants to experiment with techniques, ask questions, and reflect on their own desires. The goal is to provide a fun, safe, and informative space where people can "taste" different aspects of intimacy without feeling overwhelmed or judged. A tasting might include exercises, demonstrations, journaling, partner activities, or playful & interactive games, all designed to help participants take home new insights and practical knowledge. It's an approachable way to dip your toes into topics you might be curious about, without diving too deep all at once!
Is Hot Take therapy?
Hot Take does NOT provide mental health therapy. Our parties are designed to initiate conversations, inspire curiosity, and learn something new. If you wish to further explore your sexuality or seek therapeutic services, Hot Take will be happy to provide you with relevant resources and mental health referrals upon request.
What if I want more support/information/resources?
The Sexperts will ensure all Hot Take party Hosts receive an outline of resources after each party to send to the other participants. Resources may include but are not limited to; local sex shops, books, articles, podcasts, games, worksheets, ect. Also, the topics discussed may bring up thoughts and feelings you would like to explore deeper. If you would like to seek out counseling-related services, a Sexpert can provide you with referrals. Additionally, you may seek out mental health care and/or support through NAMI. For more information, you may want to contact the National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI) at: 1-800-950-NAMI (6263).
What if I no longer wish to participate in the Hot Take party?
No Hot Take party is completely risk-free. However, we do not anticipate that anyone will be harmed or distressed during this party. You may stop participating in the party at any time. Hot Take does not offer refunds. The topics discussed may bring up thoughts and feelings you would like to explore deeper.
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Will you share our information?
Your privacy is of utmost importance to us. All information shared during the party will be kept strictly confidential (Vegas rules) and will not be disclosed to third parties without your explicit consent.
Will sex toys be available for purchase?
Yes, we will have a selection of toys available for purchase at the party. These items are priced slightly higher than market value for convenience, so you can take them home right away. If you prefer to purchase the products yourself, we’ll also provide links to all the toys discussed and displayed during the event.
What if I want to host a Hot Take party but I do not live in Seattle?
Hot Take currently serves the greater Seattle area, however if you live further away and wish to host a party please contact us to make arrangements. Prices may be subject to change due to travel costs.
What if I do not have a space big enough for my group?
We prefer the host have a space to comfortably accommodate the size of the party, however if a larger space is required please let us know-we may be able provide a space for you. Rates are subject to change.
How long is a party?
For groups of 6 people or fewer, parties are typically 2 hours long. For groups of 7 or more, parties are extended to 3 hours to accommodate more participants and activities.
What if we’re a couple?
Couples parties have a minimum requirement of 3 couples and start at 2 hours. These events focus on connection and communication between partners, with activities designed to enhance intimacy in a comfortable group setting.
How do I book a Hot Take party?
1. Submit an Inquiry Visit www.hottakeco.com and submit a booking inquiry with your preferred date and estimated group size. 2. Confirm Availability We'll confirm whether your requested date is available. 3. Reserve Your Date If available, we'll send an invoice for a $100 booking deposit. Once the deposit is paid, your party is offically scheduled. The deposit is applied toward your total party fee. 4. Final Payment The remaining balance is due not later than 7 days before your party date.
What is the party duration and pricing?
Groups of 6 or fewer: - 2-hour party - $300 - Option to add additional time for a fee Groups of 7 or more - 3-hour party - $400 total - Option to add additional time for a fee
