To some, it may seem like planning a lesbian bachelorette party is no different than planning most bachelorette parties, but that’s simply not the case. Remember, when coming up with lesbian bachelorette party ideas, you need to account for two brides and not just one. 

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You’ll also need to think about how to bring together a bachelorette party for two different bride squads. That’s why we at Batch have come up with some awesome lesbian bachelorette party game ideas and tips that will help you throw the best bachelorette party ever. 

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How Is a Lesbian Bachelorette Party Different

When planning and organizing a bachelorette for a lesbian couple, the main thing you want to ask yourself is this: “Should I throw two separate parties or make it a joint event?

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If you wish to ensure you don’t make any accidental mistakes and plan your party without headaches, you can always ask the brides which option they prefer. That way, you can hit the ground running and organize everything based on the answer. 

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Keep in mind that although many lesbian couples choose to have a joint bachelorette party—especially if they share the same circle of friends—that doesn’t always have to be the case. Some lesbian bachelorettes would still like to keep things a bit more traditional and have their last hooray on their own before tying the knot.

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Who Should You Invite to Your Lesbian Bachelorette Party

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Once you decide on how you’re going to organize your bachelorette party, it’s time to start thinking about who you want to invite. If you’re throwing your bachelorette party at home, try not to go too crazy with the guest list. If you’re planning a fun night out or a weekend away, you can go as small or big as you want. 

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Usually, the Maid(s) of Honor, bridesmaids, as well as the closest friends and family, should have their spot on your guest list. But you can also invite your favorite work or childhood friends you haven’t seen in a while. Bachelorette parties are not strictly reserved for females, so make sure you include your guy friends as well if you feel like it.

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Where Should You Host Your Bachelorette Party

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When it comes to choosing the perfect location for your bachelorette party, the options you’ll have at your disposal are virtually limitless. As mentioned earlier, you can host your party at home and get your hands on some awesome supplies that will take the vibe to a whole new level.

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These supplies can include, but are not limited to:

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• Fun and exciting bachelorette party games
• A disco ball
• Lesbian wedding-appropriate decor
• A stripper pole for some added fun

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You can also consider taking your party to a cool bachelorette destination and enjoying a weekend away. New Orleans, Nashville, San Francisco, Houston, and Miami are just some of the best places off the top of our heads, but you can choose any destination you deem fit.

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If you opt for a destination bachelorette party, you should plan out your itinerary in advance and make sure you book accommodations, activities, experiences, and everything else in advance.

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Lesbian Bachelorette Party With Wining and Dining Options

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Good times are often accompanied by good food and drinks. So, if you’re looking for a luxurious bachelorette party experience, make sure you have a variety of options to sip and nibble on throughout the party. Some of these offer even more than just food and drinks, so we definitely recommend checking out all of the following experiences:

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• Botanical Garden Brunch: Throw a garden party in Hamptons, NY, and enjoy a four-course menu available at your vacay rental with an all-inclusive private chef and a Garden-Chic tablescape design. 
• Chocolate Tasting Extravaganza: Enjoy a delicious sugar pastry package in Ocean City, MD, with cake pops, cupcakes, chocolate strawberries, and more. It’s a great way to enjoy some sweets while celebrating your last hooray before married life. 
• Cooking Class Extravaganza: Go for a private chef Dining Experience in Savannah, GA, with a cooking class option. It’s a great way to learn something new while having fun with your besties. 
• Culinary Delights Tour: Take a Mexican fiesta cooking class in New York, NY. Learning how to make street tacos, guacamole, and salsas is a great way to explore unique and exotic tastes from all around the world. 
• Rooftop Cocktail Party: Go for a boujee rooftop pregame in Las Vegas, NV, with an open bar and complimentary champagne to get in the mood and start your bachelorette party the right way. 
• Secret Garden Picnic: BYOB beach picnic in Santa Monica is a great option if you wish to enjoy some time in the sun without worrying about overpaying for your drinks. 
• Sushi Rolling Workshop: This sushi-making class in San Diego, CA, will teach you how to make some of your favorite rolls in a casual environment with instructions that are super easy to follow.
• Wine Tasting Extravaganza: An all-inclusive winery tour with transportation and booze is a great way to avoid worrying about who’s the designated driver for the night. 

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Fun Lesbian Bachelorette Party Games

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Bachelorette party games are all the rage right now. But we’re not talking about those at-home party games that are just barely adjusted to fit the overall bachelorette theme. We’re talking about some of the most thrilling, engaging, and thought-provoking games you’ll find. 

Get ready to put your groove on with matching T-shirts and other party accessories to let everyone know you’re with your bride squad. Check out the following selection of experiences that include games: 

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• Casino Night Extravaganza: There’s no party like a casino party, so make sure you check out this casino party package in Las Vegas, NV. It includes private transportation, a three-course meal at Oscar’s Steakhouse, and a bar crawl on Fremont Street in Old Vegas—a truly glamorous experience. 
• Escape Room Challenge: Book a horror-themed escape room experience in Los Angeles, CA, with catering options and group photos if you’re looking for a fun and chilling way to spend your lesbian bachelorette party. 
• Fortune Telling Night: If you’re down for a mystical theme for your bachelorette party, don’t miss out on this chakra reading in Savannah, GA. It’s a party with a licensed fortune teller for a truly unique party experience. 
• Game Night Extravaganza: If you’re feeling extra spicy, take your lover and the rest of your crew to a naughty game night in Scottsdale, AZ, with Adam Grabowski from America’s Got Talent, and enjoy all the sassiness that’s about to come your way. 
• Mystery Dinner Theater: Get your detective hats on and enjoy a murder mystery dinner experience in Denver, CO, to really get your cogs working. 
• Scavenger Hunt Adventure: Go for a group scavenger hunt party and city tour in Austin, TX, by Alley Kat Adventures if you wish to explore key pockets of Austin like a true local while solving problems for some added fun. 

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Outdoor Lesbian Party Activities and Adventures

Outdoorsy gals may not enjoy being stuck in a house (room, rental, stuffy bar, etc.) the entire night. Instead, they are far bigger fans of fun outdoor activities they can enjoy with anybody willing to participate. Therefore, here are just some super fun suggestions you may end up really enjoying if you don’t feel like being stuck within four walls throughout your entire bachelorette party: 

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• Beach Bonfire Bash: Check out the Beachside Dinner Experience in Destin, FL, which offers full service and upscale catering and decor options to make your bachelorette party truly unique. 
• Boat Cruise Party: Try lobstering and fishing boat cruises in Key West, FL, where you will board a luxury fishing boat with an experienced captain. And don’t forget to BYOB for some additional fun. 
• Glamorous Glamping: Go on a picnic in Boston, MA, with an optional bouquet bar, canvas painting, and a photo booth to make those memories last forever.
• Hot Air Balloon Adventure: If you’re not afraid of heights, go for a hot air balloon ride in Scottsdale, AZ, with champagne, stunning views of the Sonoran Desert, and custom banner and photographer add-ons for an unforgettable experience and even better photos. 
• Outdoor Movie Night Under the Stars: This movie night in Miami, FL, is the perfect addition to your backyard bachelorette party if you wish to spend the night outdoors but still stay close to your rental. 
• Sunset Sailing Cruise: if you’re in the mood for a sightseeing cruise, you can check out this luxurious cruise in Miami, FL, where you can BYOB and enjoy a stunning yacht party with complimentary prosecco. 
• Safari Adventure: If you wish to experience something new and exciting, go for a Baja Safari in Cabo, MX, that includes a beach camel ride, a nature walk, as well as a Mexican buffet lunch and tequila-tasting. 

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Artsy Ideas for Your Bachelorette Party Gathering

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If you’re not really in the mood to play games or go hiking, don’t worry, as there are still plenty of fun lesbian bachelorette party activities for two brides to go around. Some of these, however, will require prior planning and organization, so make sure you take that into account. Be sure to check out the following activities: 

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• Art Experiences: For a truly epic celebration of your love, you can check out Rainbow Vomit in Dallas, TX, the best immersive art experience in the city where you can BYOB and enjoy making art in a private sanctuary. 
• DIY Craft Party: For all those crafty bachelorettes and the ones who wish to learn how to make something with their own two hands, we recommend checking out this hat party in Los Angeles, CA, a private party with a BYOB option and a special gift for the guest-of-honor. 
• Karaoke Night Out: Hire a party bus in Nashville, TN! The karaoke and hookah BYOB party bus will take you on a multiple-hour ride around the Music City. 
• Live Music Lounge: Party harder in Nashville, TN, at Dick's Last Resort with free shots, live music, and an option to take the party to go and buy souvenir cups with signature cocktails. 
• Mural Photo Tour Adventure: Go on an iconic mural pedicab photo tour in Austin, TX, with hidden gems and perfect photoshoot spots, and don’t forget to BYOB to boost the party vibes. 
• Paint and Sip Party: Sip and paint in Charleston, SC, and create your masterpiece, which you can take home to have a lasting reminder of your epic lesbian bachelorette party. 
• Vintage Photo Shoot: Go on an Insta-worthy wine country tour in San Francisco, CA, in a vintage VW bus and take some amazing shots with your bride squad while living your best hippy life. 

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Sporty Bachelorette Party Ideas for Active Bachelorettes

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If action is your second name, there’s really no reason not to choose a high-intensity experience for your lesbian bachelorette party and enjoy staying active while having fun and potentially learning something new at the same time. 

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• Aerial Yoga: This BYOB fitness party in Nashville, TN, is a great beginner-friendly activity for anyone looking to try out something new and step out of their comfort zone. 
• Glow-in-the-Dark Bowling Bash: If you enjoy bowling but wish to add a new twist to your favorite activity, this kind of party can be the perfect experience for you and your crew. 
• Pole Dance Party: Check out this sexy BYOB pole dancing Class in Nashville, TN, and let loose on the dance floor while attempting to make some of the moves you’ve always wanted to try out. 
• Retro Roller Skating Party: if you enjoy roller skating, get dressed in your best retro outfit, throw on some statement accessories, get your hands on fun bachelorette party props, and enjoy skating the night away with your bride tribe. 
• Zipline Adventures: Go on a thrilling zipline adventure in Charleston, SC, and take your relationship to new heights. 

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Nerdy Bachelorette Party Ideas for Those Who Like Food for Thought 

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Another great idea for spending time with the brides before their big day revolves around planning a fun hen party with all of your friends that’s a little bit on the nerdy side. Hit the city and look for unique experiences that offer some food for thought. Check out our recommendations: 

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• Book Club Brunch: Go for a book club brunch where you and your ladies can enjoy delicious foods (and drinks, of course) while discussing some of your favorite literary works. 
• Comedy Club Night: Grab a drink and go to a comedy club in Denver, CO, to spark up the night with some good old comedy magic. 
• Museum Exploration Tours:  Check out the wax museum in Nashville, TN, where you can snap a selfie with Taylor Swift while sipping on your favorite drink. 

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Bachelorette Party Options Centered Around Wellness and Pampering

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With the big day approaching fast, you may wish to tone things down a bit and enjoy a nice, relaxing weekend with your ladies that’s full of pampering, wellness and self-care. So, make the theme of your bachelorette event center around relaxation and unwinding, and get ready to welcome your upcoming marriage with style. 

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• Aromatherapy: Check out this at-home spa and massage therapy in Scottsdale, AZ, with aromatherapy and cupping add-ons to rejuvenate your body before the big day.
• Spa Day Extravaganza: Enjoy the ultimate spa party experience in Atlanta, GA, created for anyone looking for relaxation, rejuvenation and celebration all rolled into one.
• Tropical Luau Party: Hire The Picnic Pop-Up in Miami, FL, to organize a tropical-themed picnic party so you don’t have to worry about planning or decorations.
• Yoga and Wellness Retreat: Check out this exclusive wellness journey in Denver, CO, and enjoy a four-hour experience tailored to the party crew that wants wellness infused into the whole weekend.

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Don’t Forget the Essentials

No matter which activity, destination, or experience you decide to go with in the end, there are a few things you mustn’t forget. 

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Bring a Camera

Encourage everyone from your bride squad to bring their camera as well. Make room for new photos and snap anything and everything you find interesting. You can easily delete excess photos later, but you won’t be able to replicate some of the most unforgettable moments of your bachelorette party. 

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Pack Some Sunscreen 

Just because you did not plan for a beach bachelorette party, that doesn’t mean you should forget about sunscreen! No matter where you go, how you choose to celebrate, or what you end up doing, remember to stay protected if you’re under the sun.

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Get a Hangover Kit 

Drinks will probably be pouring left and right, and the last thing you want is to have a hangover headache the morning after as a reminder of just how much bubbly you had the night before. Having a hangover kit can alleviate your symptoms. 

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Always Put Safety First 

As much as bachelorette parties are fun, they can easily become unhinged and get out of hand. So, make sure you always make safety your number one priority.

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Don’t Forget About the Gifts!

Bachelorette party favors and gifts, although not necessary, are always more than welcome. Although there’s a difference between a bridal shower and a bachelorette party, you should still make sure every guest has a little something to take home that will remind them of your party and the fun you had together. 

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Plan Your Lesbian Bachelorette Party with Batch

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No matter if you’re looking for some lesbian bachelorette party suggestions or to explore the best bachelorette party destinations, you’ve come to the right spot! We at Batch are here to offer you some of the best party guides and top experiences, as well as a list of all the bookable activities and services available in your destination.

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Download our app to get started and pick the right experience for your party by simply choosing one of the options provided.

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Conclusion

As you can see, even though lesbian bachelorette party ideas need to be centered around two brides instead of just one, there’s no lack of options to make it a fun, engaging, and memorable experience for everyone involved.

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So, make sure you take care of planning, invite guests, search for the best party destinations, and create a detailed itinerary to ensure that everything goes smoothly and everyone has fun at your big celebration before the wedding!

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FAQs

How to plan a bachelorette party for a lesbian?

Lesbian bachelorette parties are more-or-less the same as any other bachelorette party, with one key difference—there are two brides. So, when planning a bachelorette party for a lesbian couple, make sure you check if they want to have separate parties or if they’d rather have a joint one. Other than that, make sure you choose a theme, destination, and activities both brides will enjoy and have fun celebrating their love.

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What is a female bachelorette party called?

A female bachelorette party is called just that—a bachelorette party. In the UK, Ireland, and Australia, however, they call it the hen party.

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Is there a lesbian bachelorette?

Yes, lesbian couples can also have bachelorette parties if they wish to organize one. 

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What do most girls do at bachelorette parties?

The main point of a bachelorette party is to enjoy and celebrate the last moments of your single life. So, many people opt to spend their bachelorette party in a club or go bar hopping. However, some decide to turn this celebration into a fun weekend trip with their friends and family.