Why settle for the same old-school separate parties when you can double the fun with a joint bachelor and bachelorette party? It’s time to embrace the emerging trend and experience camaraderie among friends and family.

A joint party not only celebrates the couple’s love but also cherishes the friendships and bonds that have been woven over the years. If you’re all set to plan a unique and unforgettable celebration, we’ve got your back. We’ll help you pick the perfect destination and curate activities that will create memories to last a lifetime. 

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Embracing Joint Bachelor and Bachelorette Parties

There’s nothing quite as delightful as the camaraderie shared between friends and couples. That’s why hosting a joint bachelor and bachelorette party has become an increasingly popular trend among couples. Joint parties are the perfect opportunity to strengthen the bond between friends and the couple.

Hosting a combined bachelor and bachelorette party allows all the wedding attendees to get closer to each other. Mutual friends of the bride and groom don’t have to pick sides and miss out on anything, while strangers can form new friendships. It also allows the bride and groom to spend more time with each other. Instead of the tradition of these parties being very gender-centric, the couple gets an opportunity to party together.

It’s also easier on the pocket. Bringing the groups together will undeniably save you a good sum of money, which can be used for your honeymoon or the wedding. Group events tend to be more affordable, as hotels, restaurants, and the like offer discounts to groups. By combining the resources of all the attendees, the memories will be unforgettable, and no individual will have to worry too much about the bills.

Just like peanut butter and jelly, joint bachelor and bachelorette parties are simply better than their classic alternatives. 

Best Places for a Joint Bachelor and Bachelorette Party

When it comes to choosing a destination, the key is to make sure both parties are on board for the adventure. Places that offer a diverse range of activities ensure that there will be something for everyone. 

Whether it’s a vibrant city known for its nightlife or a picturesque beach destination, the options are endless. Some of our favorite joint party spots include Las Vegas, Miami, and New Orleans. You can find a plethora of fun things to do in many cities across the country.

Party Planning Made Easy

Now, let’s make party planning a breeze! When it comes to a big group, planning can feel like herding cats. Dividing tasks and collaborating with the bridal party and groomsmen ensures that everything will fall into place effortlessly. From party invitations to decorations, it’s all about the special touch. Here are some important things to keep in mind when planning a joint party:

• Invitations: Get creative by basing them on the couple's love story timeline, showcasing their first meeting, first date, and proposal.
• Decorations: A personalized photo wall featuring the couple’s favorite moments will add a personalized touch. Consider incorporating elements that represent their shared interests. Decorations will also depend on the theme the group chooses to go with! We recommend checking out this decoration package in Austin, TX, that offers bedroom suite decor, an extra balloon garland, and a custom banner.
• Attire: Dress up as the bride or groom in the opposing gender or host a costume party with iconic moments from the couple’s love story. Let your creativity soar and make this celebration truly unique.
• Budget: Joint bachelor and bachelorette parties can be cost-effective as the expenses are shared between friends and the couple. You can create a memorable celebration without breaking the bank by combining resources.
• Theme: Choose a theme that reflects the couple's personalities and interests. Whether it's a tropical luau, a vintage Hollywood glam, or a casual backyard barbecue, having a joint bachelor bachelorette party theme will set the tone for a fun and memorable experience.

Exciting Joint Activities

Joint group activities are exciting outings that will take the party to the next level. From adventure outings, group games, spa days, or mixology classes, we’ve got the dream lineup. 

Check out the following experiences: 

• Kayak tour in Miami, FL: Kayak through Miami’s lush mangroves and paddle through the beautiful scenery. 
• ATV adventure tour in Las Vegas, NV: Get the adrenaline pumping as you tear up the dunes of Las Vegas on an ATV adventure. 
• In-home spa in Charleston, SC: If relaxation is on the menu, indulge in a spa day that comes to you. Unwind and rejuvenate with soothing massages and spa treatments, all in the company of your favorite people. 

Things to Do at a Joint Party

Who said breaking norms can’t be a blast? We’re spicing up the joint bachelor and bachelorette party with a dash of classic fun! Prepare for some friendly competition by dividing the group into teams based on gender. With these creative ideas, you’ll get the perfect blend of traditional bachelor and bachelorette parties and joint celebrations. 

• Game night: It’s game show time! Test your bride group’s knowledge with fun and entertaining questions about the couple’s favorite things, pet peeves, and history of their love. Check out this guide for throwing a joint party you will remember for a lifetime. 
• DIY cocktail contest: Let guests create their mixology magic and name their unique concoction after the couple or their friendship. 
• Beer Olympics: Get ready for some friendly competition as teams compete in various drinking games and challenges. From beer pong to flip cup and cornhole, the Beer Olympics will keep the party spirits high and create lasting memories.
• Party bus: To get the night rolling, hop on a party bus for a bar-hopping excursion. We recommend going on the ultra-luxury party bus in Charleston, SC.
• ‍Find the ring: Start the party out with a scavenger hunt. Before the guests arrive, take both the rings and hide them somewhere in the house/venue. Once everyone is at the location, split them into two teams. Drop some hints, make some signs, and let the hunt begin! Oh, and of course, you don’t have to hide your actual rings; a toy or dummy should do the trick.

But wait, there's more! Dress up as movie characters, throw on masquerade masks, or become iconic personas—the theme is yours to choose.

Memorable Experiences

By incorporating unique experiences into your joint bachelor and bachelorette party, your group will create unforgettable and cherished moments that will be discussed for years to come.

• Hiking adventures: Explore the mountains on a hiking adventure and revel in the breathtaking panoramic views surrounding you. Try this waterfall hiking tour in Gatlinburg, TN! We promise you won't be disappointed.
• Water sports: Find some water activities in Scottsdale, AZ, and enjoy days filled with sun-soaked fun. Whether you decide to take a splash in the crystal-clear waters or simply lounge on a luxurious yacht, the water adventures will be an absolute blast. 
• Tours: Immerse yourself in the local charm and culture by booking a tour of New Orleans, LA. Explore the hidden gems, historic landmarks, and vibrant neighborhoods that define the city’s essence. Tours like pedal pubs, wine tastings, or brewery hopping are some of our favorites.

It is okay for the groups to go their own way for some time. Since this is an intermingling of two different groups of friends, not all their interests have to match. One group might be out drinking at 4 AM while the other is getting ready for a hike. Divide your days into two sections. Leave the first half free for everyone to do as they please, and instruct everyone to regroup for the second half.  

Celebratory Night Out

Have a group that is itching to live it up in the city? Well, exploring the local nightlife and entertainment scene is the way to go! And guess what? The Batch app makes it a breeze to handle all the reservations, ensuring a safe and enjoyable night out for all the night owls in your group.  

• Transportation: First and foremost, coordinate transportation in advance to avoid a night of chaos getting more chaotic. A party bus that picks you up and drops you off at your rental is a smart and fun move, as safety comes first! 
• Reservations: Want to skip the lines and get the VIP treatment? Book a bar crawl tour to guarantee entry to the hottest local hotspots. 

Symbolic Gestures

When it comes to a joint bachelor and bachelorette party, exploring meaningful ways to honor the couple and their journey during the joint celebration is important. Heartfelt toasts before the night begins, surprise gifts, and group activities that reflect their shared interests add an extra layer of significance to the festivities. 

Capturing the Moments

A joint celebration is a collision of laughter, love, and a little chaos. And let’s not forget the essential task of preserving the special moments through documentation because, with so many people around, moments will be captured from every angle, even those you didn't know existed! And let's be honest, you’ll be over the moon reliving those crazy, heartfelt, and downright hilarious moments as you scroll through the photos and videos from the celebrations.

A joint bachelor and bachelorette party is the epitome of inclusivity and an experience that is simply unforgettable. It's all about the bride and groom, surrounded by their favorite people, coming together to embrace the joy of love. 

Get ready for an epic bash where love and laughter unite, creating memories that will last a lifetime. Explore Batch Cities and our top-rated bookable experiences that will give you some amazing joint bachelor and bachelorette party ideas.

Host Your Joint Bachelor and Bachelorette Party With Batch

Taking charge of a combined bachelor and bachelorette party is an exciting but tough job. The best practice is to have the entire gang on the same page and be completely transparent from the get-go. 

Gone are the days of keeping a notepad with you and writing down who owes what; that gets super awkward. Bypass all that by using the Batch app as your new party planner. From splitting the plan to planning the entire itinerary, Batch has got you covered. Download the Batch app for free, and start planning your party today!

FAQs

Who should be in charge of the planning?

For a bachelorette party, the Maid of Honor takes charge, while for a bachelor party, the best man takes the lead. In a special case scenario wherein the parties are combined for a joint bachelor bachelorette party, they can work as a team. The married couple can also take charge in this case. If you don’t want the hassle of planning, you can always just hand it over to the person in your group who enjoys planning or hire a professional.

How do we make everyone feel included?

In a “stag and hen” party, since two different groups merge, you’re bound to run into a situation where people have varied tastes. To ensure everyone feels included and has a good time, you must plan various activities, create an open dialogue with the group so everyone can open up about their preferences, and split the day into two halves. Leave the first half for everyone to do as they desire, and have everyone get together during the second half. 

When should we host a combined party?

There are several advantages to hosting a combined bachelor and bachelorette party. Bachelor and bachelorette parties can get unpredictable. It can often make your partner uncomfortable or jealous. Having a party together can remedy that. Moreover, if you share many mutual friends, it only makes sense to party together. Also, it’s a more cost-effective option.

Should we have any rules for the party?

A party should not have any rules. Basic etiquette and empathy go a long way and are often sufficient. If you’re the host, some general things to keep in mind include ensuring everyone feels safe, organizing accommodation, and, of course, having fun.

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